"Priestdaddy" by Patricia Lockwood

     

   I know some authors who write memoirs. In my opinion, it's a tricky genre unless the author is gifted, because unless the reader has some connection to the author's experience, the reader may not get too far into the text.

   That is not the problem here. I explain a little about that in my Amazon review, which follows my remarks. I wonder what my son would write about growing up in a Lutheran parsonage/family home.

   The concept of simul iustus et peccator- being both saint and sinner- permeates the memoir even if Lockwood does not use the term herself. Her father by all appearances is a dedicated priest but spends money on things like electric guitars instead of his daughters' college educations. Her mother obsesses and rants about all sorts of things yet will move heaven and earth to help her children no matter what.

    At times Lockwood's writing made me laugh out loud, and at times I shook my head in sadness. Several sections, especially about the charismatic teenagers' group she attended, were riveting. Her character descriptions made me feel that I knew them.

 Full disclosure from the outset:  I am a Lutheran pastor who was in the same denomination as Fr. Lockwood. He swam the Tiber; I swam the Mississippi (i.e. he converted to Roman Catholicism, I went to another branch of Lutheranism.) I know St. Louis well, so the author's descriptions of life in and around that city resonated with me. In addition, I know and know of colleagues who have swum the Tiber. Most of them did not have families.

Lockwood paints a realistic picture of her upbringing, especially of family life. She does not hesitate to depict the negative sides, which in time led to her abandoning religion. However, her love for her family is quite evident, even when they disagree and lack understanding of their actions, especially her life decisions.

Those looking for a scandal within the family will be disappointed. Lockwood mentioned scandals involving others. Her writing is sharp, often funny, and pulls no punches. Most of all, it is honest and engages the reader.

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Why I Will Never Be South Carolina's Poet Laureate- But It's Fine

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     South Carolina has not had a Poet Laureate since 2017, when Governor Henry McMaster took office. Marjory Wentworth was the Poet Laureate under Governor Mikki Haley. 

     My friend and fellow poet, Dr. Len Lawson of Newberry College, organized yesterday's SC Read-A-Thon for SC Poet Laureate. A good number of fellow peers and friends read for half an hour, making sure that we explained why we were reading.

     I likely was not the only reader to say that our participation took us out of the running for the office, if indeed there was a running in the first place. That is perfectly fine. More important is that a Poet Laureate be selected; there are many fine poets here. The triumphs and tragedies, the joys and sorrows of the Palmetto State need to be expressed in poetic form.

    This is not a partisan appointment. In my opinion (I will speak here only for myself) the Poet Laureate should create poetry to describe, reflect, and while pointing out an issue, should not advocate a particular policy.

     For example, if a poem laments the under-funded schools in the infamous Corridor of Shame, there should be no bashing of people or specific proposals on how to rectify the situation. I believe that a poet can highlight a certain issue, and I also believe that no one in their right mind would want a child to attend a school that was in poor condition and using inadequate materials. Exactly how that situation is improved is up to the politicians and the community as a whole.

     We had a successful event yesterday, and the feeling is that it will not be the last one. Previously there was a petition and a public gathering. There is some momentum, and all I can say is stay tuned!

     That's me reading at an earlier event.

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